Saturday, 21 September 2013

GRADUATING FROM LOWER PRIMARY TO UPPER PRIMARY AND LESSONS LEARNED.

(Today is World peace Day! So sad that the West Gate mall was attacked today. May the souls of those who passed on rest in peace and quick recovery to those who have been hurt)

Back to my story...... Goodbye Lower primary, welcome upper primary. This was one of the most awaited moment as it marked a ‘promotion’ to a new whole world in school life. At least i was not a Kid any more... i thought! The most memorable moment in class four was during the exams as ‘those who used to perform not so well in exams’ had to secure all means to up their game and I had to assist a lovely friend by the name Peter who could not even write his name! This dude never went past class eight as his efforts during the exams were not very fruitful but thanks God the dude is doing so well in business and happily married now!

The year ended so fast and soon, I joined class five white. Learning was amazing but one day, mum decided that it was time to say goodbye to life in a public school and welcome life in a private school hence enrolling me at St John progressive Academy locally known as ‘Kwa Ngure’  named after Mr John Ngure who was an education officer in our district then. Joining this mixed day and boarding school marked a turning point in my life where I learned  of the best and worst lessons in my early life.

One of them was that I was supposed to do as the Romans did in Rome incase I landed there but I learned it the wrong way. On the second day, I decided to go to school shoe less as in my former public school, wearing shoes in a normal school day was optional. Come parade time, reality struck and I realized that I was the odd one out. Luckily, this was not an ‘inspection day’ hence I managed to get to class un noticed by the teachers. To avoid a lot of drama, I never left the class to the loo, for break and even lunch and had to wait after all students had left the school compound after four in the evening so as to comfortably sneak the shoe less me out of the school compound. A culture shock that was!

The worst lesson that i learned here was that it was possible to disagree and even fight teachers as was the case of a friend by the name Dan who was a boarder. If one tried this in a public school, this would have literally called for a death sentence.  I became big headed to a point of being sent away and was driven home by the Manager Mr Ngure after misbehaving and imitating him in front of the class.

Mum was not at home so we met Grandma by the name Anjerina  where the manager told her that I should never get back to that school now that I had the guts to mimic him and make jokes out of any speech that he gave us and on his lovely mathematics strong point by the acronym BODMAS! My Loving and ever blazing mum took the matter under control and the following day, I was re admitted back to school. I would later mis behave on several instances to a point of earning my self a constant and permanent place in the black book. Despite all, The Manager never gave up on me till I did class eight. Thanks Mr Ngure for that!

Lessons from Dan continued and I would later hear him talk of 'soap jelly' which was hidden meaning of masturbation. This was what boarders used to do using soap a thing that would come to terrorize me later in my life. Most of the boys’ talk when Dan was around was all about sex and so sad that at this age, he would explain us on sexual fantasies that he shared with Carol, his girl friend of that time where he was backed by another day scholar by the name Steve sharing similar experiences. This I can say was the foundation of my irresponsible sexual behavior at a very tender age and something I would struggle with in my later years in adult hood.

The positive side of this was that In St John progressive Academy, there was serious competition and learning was taking place. Anne, Robinson, Terresia, Joseph, Felix and others gave me a run for my time in school and I can say that they were worthy Comrades. The other was that Mr Ngure and Mrs Rosemary Githanda took the Catholic Doctrine so seriously that my Christianity got a strong foundation here. Big up Mrs Rosemary for a job well done and also for being my CRE teacher all trough till I sat for my class eight exams.

Summarizing my life in St John, I can say that I got a very strong foundation of what I am today here both positive and negative.  Year 1999 came, KCPE Exams too and the results were not bad as I scored 497/700 to secure admission at Kerugoya Boys High school a well known  provincial school by then........More Drama followed here!


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